Top signs that you’re in ‘Task Paralysis’ and 5 ways to get unstuck.

By: Bria Wannamaker If you’re in freeze mode (fight-flight-freeze), you’re essentially playing dead. Neglecting to engage in any decision that might potentially bring you harm such as fighting or the potential dangers that might come from fleeing. We go into freeze when we are so overwhelmed that we don’t feel like we could win inContinue reading “Top signs that you’re in ‘Task Paralysis’ and 5 ways to get unstuck.”

3 Signs that you’re stuck in a low-motivation cycle, & what to do about it.

By: Bria Wannamaker Truly, right down to my core, I believe that no one wants to feel lazy; in fact, “lazy” can be an emotionally triggering word for some. Western culture values hustle and productivity so it can be extremely painful to struggle with having little to no motivation. If you’re struggling to get outContinue reading “3 Signs that you’re stuck in a low-motivation cycle, & what to do about it.”

The top 3 reasons why you’re being taken advantage of & what to do about it

By: Bria Wannamaker So, in terms of your relationships in the workplace, your family, your friends – you feel like you’re treated like trash? Like you’re not an equal? That you go above and beyond for others? That your relationships are important to you, your work is important to you, and that no one seemsContinue reading “The top 3 reasons why you’re being taken advantage of & what to do about it”

9 signs that you had an enmeshed childhood & how to heal it

By: Bria Wannamaker What is Enmeshment? This is that “fear of commitment” that everyone talks about. The “emotionally unavailable person” The reason for this is simply – commitment poses a threat to your self-identity. It’s fragile. Not to be confused with Disorganized Attachment Style (an insecure attachment) and also not to be confused with BorderlineContinue reading “9 signs that you had an enmeshed childhood & how to heal it”

4 signs that you have no boundaries & what to do about it.

By: Bria Wannamaker I heard somewhere once that porous boundaries keep us connected but not respected and protected, while rigid boundaries keep us protected and respected but not connected. Here are some ways that boundaries, or lack there of might show up in your life and what to do about this. 4 signs that yourContinue reading “4 signs that you have no boundaries & what to do about it.”

When depressive symptoms are taking over your life

By: Bria Wannamaker You can’t stop having bouts of crying. You feel like you’ve tried everything and you’re all tapped out. Of course, you’ll do anything to get to where you’re going – if you only knew where that was – can I get a road map of this divine path that I’m supposed toContinue reading “When depressive symptoms are taking over your life”

Living with Intention

By: Bria Wannamaker It seems like everyday is filled with rushing from one activity to the next, to another task, errand, social engagement. It seems never ending, it seems unenjoyable while we’re in the midst of things that we feel like we “should” be enjoying. When it’s over and the day has come to aContinue reading “Living with Intention”

Codependency & Health Anxiety

By: Bria Wannamaker You’ve probably heard of codependency in mainstream media used to describe someone who is dependent on someone else to meet their needs, characterizing this person as someone who is “clingy, needy, or desperate”, and the truth of the matter is that it takes two to tango. In order for someone to continueContinue reading “Codependency & Health Anxiety”

Why am I having panic attacks?

Maybe you’ve had symptoms of anxiety your whole life; people labelled you as a “shy” child, you didn’t like going over to friends houses for sleepovers, and you despised giving presentations in front of your class. Maybe you’ve been mostly comfortable for your whole life; lots of friends, a loving family, always had a jobContinue reading “Why am I having panic attacks?”